17-year-old
Fahma Mohamed calls on Michael Gove to ensure teachers and parents are informed
about horrors of FGM
theguardian.com,
Alexandra Topping, Wednesday 5 February 2014
A
17-year-old British student is calling on Michael Gove to help end female
genital mutilation in the UK.
She wants
the education secretary to write to every headteacher in the country asking
them to train and inform teachers and parents about the horrors of the
practice, which has affected an estimated 66,000 women and girls in the UK.
As the face
of the Guardian's new campaign to have FGM recognised as a key government
priority, Fahma Mohamed, one of nine daughters in a Muslim Somali family that
came to Britain when she was seven, believes Gove could do more to help curtail
the barbaric practice.
She adds her
voice to a broad coalition of global charities and campaigners who have joined
the Guardian to ask the education secretary to write to headteachers of all
primary and secondary schools, urging them to flag up the dangers of FGM before
the summer holidays, when girls are at the greatest risk.
"If
every single headteacher was given the right information, we could reach every
single girl who is at risk of FGM," said Fahma, from Bristol. "We
could convince these families not to send their daughters abroad and help those
girls at risk."
According
to government figures more than 20,000 British girls are thought to be at risk
of being cut every year but, despite previous government promises to stop FGM,
experts have warned the Guardian that girls are not only still being taken
abroad to be cut during the holiday "cutting season", but are also
being mutilated in Britain.
A coalition
of medical groups, trade unions and human rights organisations recently
estimated that there were 66,000 UK victims of FGM in the UK and more than
24,000 girls under the age of 15 were at risk. Victims can be as young as just
a few weeks old.
The
Guardian spoke to Manika, who was eight years old when she was mutilated in the
Gambia. She is now 25 and lives in Scotland. "It really hurt. It's like
taking a knife and cutting someone's flesh," she said. After suffering
physical complications, she is now terrified of having sex. "I can't let
my body move properly so that I can do it. I still have this at the back of my
mind … it makes me feel scared."
For her,
the consequences are lifelong, and catastrophic. "After I saw the blade, I
knew they would definitely hurt me," she said. "This is just like
you're taking somebody's life. It's just like you're taking a gun and shooting
somebody to death. It's just like it feels for me."
Experts
told the Guardian that some families, put off by expensive air travel, were
clubbing together to pay for cutters to travel to Britain to mutilate their
girls in "cutting parties" here. "We have found out that there
is a lot of individuals carrying out this process in Scotland and it's becoming
quite popular for people from other countries to come here to get the process
carried out," said the MSP Margaret McCulloch, of the Holyrood equal
opportunities committee. Reports that "cutters" are at work, some
operating out of expensive private clinics, have come from other major cities
including London, Birmingham and Bristol, said Sarah McCulloch, from the
charity Agency for Culture and Change Management. "Wherever communities
[that practise FGM] are residing, it is a problem," she said.
More than
140 million women and girls worldwide have suffered FGM, with up to 98% of girls mutilated in some African, Middle Eastern and Asian countries.
Traditionally seen as a rite of passage carried out to keep girls
"pure" before marriage, it is condemned by campaigners as a means of
controlling women's fertility and sexual desire.
Despite
three decades of legislation against FGM in the UK, there is yet to be a single
prosecution. DCS Keith Niven, the Metropolitan police's lead on child abuse,
called on members of FGM-practising communities to come forward. "I need
information, I need people to tell me who it is that is committing these
crimes," he said.
The lack of
prosecutions is a "failure" that has to be addressed, admitted the
Home Office minister Norman Baker, speaking before the campaign's launch.
"I'm hopeful we can defeat this in the UK and I think we are making
progress. The next 12 months will be important. I'm pretty confident we will
get some prosecutions," said Baker, the government lead of FGM. New cases
were being "seriously investigated" while some previously closed
cases had been reopened, he added.
In France,
activists accused Britain of cowardice, arguing that France had come close to
eradicating FGM by carrying out controversial physical health checks on
children and arresting parents if there was a suspicion that a girl had been
mutilated.
Naana Otoo
Oyortey, the executive director of Forward UK, which has been central to the
FGM debate in the UK and has joined the Guardian's campaign, said it could play
a significant role in raising awareness of FGM. "We want the education
secretary to come out and say work really needs to be done in school," she
said. "Why are we talking about prosecuting parents before we have even
sent out information? There has to be a change of heart, and that has to start
in schools."
Fahma, who
has seen at firsthand among her friends and family the devastation that FGM can
cause, said that with the commitment of the government and action from the
education secretary, eradicating FGM in a generation was achievable. "We
are not going to be quiet. We are not going to shut up," she said.
"It has taken us this long just to get people talking about it – we don't
care how long it takes to make people listen."
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Question: Dear and beloved Kryon: What should we know about "Brit-Mila" (Jewish circumcision)?
Answer: All circumcision was based on commonsense health issues of the day, which manifested itself in religious-based teaching. That basically is what made people keep doing it. This eighth-day-from-birth ritual is no more religious today than trimming your fingernails (except that Brit-Mila is only done once, and it hurts a bit more).
It's time to start seeing these things for what they are. Common sense is not static. It's dynamic, and related to the culture of the time. Yesterday's common sense about health changed greatly with the discovery of germs. It changed again with practices of cleanliness due to the discovery of germs, and so on. Therefore, we would say that it really doesn't make a lot of difference in today's health practices. It's done almost totally for cultural historic and traditional purposes and holds no energy around it other than the obvious intent of the tradition.
This is also true for a great deal of the admonishments of the Old Testament regarding food and cleanliness, and even the rules of the neighborhood (such as taking your neighbor's life if he steals your goat, or selling your daughter in slavery if you really need the money... all found in scripture). The times are gone where these things matter anymore, yet they're still treated with reverence and even practiced religiously in some places. They're now only relics of tradition, and that's all. If you feel that you should honor a tradition, then do it. If not, then don't. It's not a spiritual or health issue any longer.
Be the boss of your own body and your own traditions. Follow what your spiritual intuition tells you is appropriate for your own spiritual path and health.
This is also true for a great deal of the admonishments of the Old Testament regarding food and cleanliness, and even the rules of the neighborhood (such as taking your neighbor's life if he steals your goat, or selling your daughter in slavery if you really need the money... all found in scripture). The times are gone where these things matter anymore, yet they're still treated with reverence and even practiced religiously in some places. They're now only relics of tradition, and that's all. If you feel that you should honor a tradition, then do it. If not, then don't. It's not a spiritual or health issue any longer.
Be the boss of your own body and your own traditions. Follow what your spiritual intuition tells you is appropriate for your own spiritual path and health.
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